New data not being stored

This is sounds like your databases either corrupted or it’s a permissions issue.
Could you please check your logs regarding errors related to the databases?
I would also recommend to check them all for integrity:

Also check permissions, is your docker user able to write to them?

Regarding not updating databases on trash deletion when the lazy mode is enabled - this seems a bug:

this is usual the long tail cancelation, your node is slower than others. In this case this piece will be deleted and the usage will reman the same or reducing when some pieces are deleted on a TTL expiration or from the trash.

this info is reported by the satellites and sent to nodes with a delay up to 12 hours, please wait until tomorrow.