Hello,
today morning i (wants) to start the GE (1. month of this node was Nov.2019)
Docker command was clear and it ask me which sat i want to exit. I tryed to exit from all
If your node is not eligible to start GE, it will not start it
The heldback from the Stefan satellite has been paid in September 2020, you can check that on Etherscan.
If your node were not online when the receipts was imported, it will not have an information in the local databases. But if it was, you can navigate to the Payout Information → Payout History → September 2020, expand unnamed satellite (it was a Stefan) and see the returned Held amount and distributed and there is a link to TX as well.